It is natural for men to start wondering about their penis size from childhood. Men often come to me with a question like How to make my penis bigger? I understand that the penis is a sign of might and confidence in men. You may often feel inferior if you think you have a small penis. But that certainly is not true. Just like nature, this too is not in our hands. Being unhappy about yourself is not the law of Tantra. One must learn to practice Tantra for accepting life the way it is.
Men often consider that a small penis doesn’t have the power to sexually satisfy a woman. Likewise, if a man has a bigger penis the ability to satisfy a woman increases. While this may not stand true, another misconception is that it is cooler to have a bigger penis. Unfortunately, the wide gambit of an unrealistic array of pornography has created this notion, wherein the size of the penis is of utmost importance. What men usually don’t understand is that, there are a lot of camera tricks and artificial add-ons involved in such videos. This then leads them to hold a lot of shame, fear, anger and self- doubt. Due to these stigmas’ men start experiencing physical problems like premature ejaculation, impotence, erectile dysfunction, perversion, porn addiction, obsession and more.
The most important aspect of a healthy sexual life is not the size of the penis, but the love making ability and the peace of mind that play a pivotal role. There are many so called Doctors and Healers who make claims, of helping men in increasing their penis size. Some of them suggest ‘herbal oils’ which they prescribe to massage on the penis regularly in order to increase its size. Others suggest non-productive exercises and medicines, most of which are rather dangerous for the body and cause multiple complications. It is crystal clear that increasing your penis size is not really possible. What really is possible is accepting with what you have, once there is the acceptance of what one really has, half of all their problems and worries disappear. Peace of mind is very important in order to have a healthy sexual life and peace of mind can be best achieved by meditation and yoga. Meditation relaxes the muscles and opens the arteries maximizing blood flow and boosting size. Erection drugs that are available also work by relaxing our muscles. Another technique for a healthy sexual life is exercising regularly. Exercising improves arterial health, allowing more blood to flow in your penis. But exercising the penis itself is pointless.
This unnecessary desire to have a big penis has created a huge business for quacks as well as some qualified doctors. They prey on men who are obsessed with the size of their penises and rake a moolah. Unfortunately, men fall prey easily to such people and adversely affect their health.
I have encountered a number of men who suffer from confidence issues and anxiety just because of a perceived notion, that his penis is small. They often ask questions like my penis size is 4.5 is it okay? Am I eligible to have sex if I have a small penis? How does one come to the decision that he has a small penis?
Well, there is no way of saying that. The average size of a penis is considered to be between 3 inches to 5 inches when erect. So, unless you sit with a measuring tape and measure it, there’s no way of saying it is small. Of course, another better way is to make use of what you have to the best of your ability and make your partner satisfied. Nature always gives us enough for ourselves. We humans always look for more and end up losing rather than gaining. Especially, when you know that your partner is into you, you must give your best and leave the rest! You must know how to use your penis and how to please her. As I earlier discussed that your penis size does not matter hence you must focus on foreplay and stimulate the clitoris to help her to orgasm.
After all, for most women, the stimulation of the clitoris is more important than vaginal sensation. Majority of the women gain sexual pleasure from the external stimulation of the clitoris, and the penis is not a necessary part of the external stimulation. Manual touch and oral are excellent ways to stimulate the clitoris.
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What really helps is the way you use your tool. I will prove it to you, for instance, take the scenario wherein a man has ‘big’ penis, but doesn’t really know how to make love using it, he doesn’t really last that long or gets tired easily. The so called advantage turns into a disadvantage and leads to sour relationships. Whereas even if one has a relatively ‘small’ penis but really knows how to use the power of nature to make love, lasts longer, owing to a better controlled body, he turns very well covers the shortcoming, and no matter how short, makes her satisfied!
There are various exercises, asanas, and mind training exercises that help to do so. Tantra Nectar will help you reach super consciousness by its different yoga techniques that include asanas, mudras, mantras, kriyas, pranayama and bandhas. Kundalini yoga helps the body to store energy called “Shakti”. It also helps build physical strength. Tantra Pranayama, on the other hand, helps one to connect and merge with the universal energy of making it an important step on the path of Tantra Yoga.
So, instead of worrying about the size of your penis, work on the well-being of your mind and body accepting life in its true form. Let your spirit free of all the perceived notions and live without shackles.