Here we go again, talking about sex. However, this topic is essential. Why? Because we are involved in this matter, it restores the intimacy between people involved in a romantic relationship and we must accept it. We are sex, enjoy it.
Opening your eyes to Tantric Sex
Most of the individuals shut their minds from topics like sex even new age sensuality namely Conscious Sensuality. Individuals tend to think that the later means doing funny poses that involve candles and weird stuff. Plus, chanting incomprehensive sounds while trying to meditate. Well, they don’t realize that the new age approach of sensuality is about a union: expansion and weaving of energy. That is Tantric Sex and some has already opened their eyes to this for over five thousand years.
What is Tantric Sex?
The difference of Tantric sex with the normal romantic mating of two individuals is its slow pace. This slow form of sex that leads to a pleasurable orgasm is effective in increasing the intimacy of couples which creates a deeper connection on their body and mind.
What is Conscious Sensuality?
Conscious sensuality is not just merely about sexuality, it is more of becoming more sensible and aware through the use of your senses. Although, at some point, sexuality has a significant attribute in Conscious Sensuality since it relates how we experience one of the most intense emotions and sensations in our lives. Thus, allowing yourself to consciously explore sexuality and sensuality is your gateway to love, empathy, compassion and greater understanding of the world.
People Who Enjoyed It
Celebrities such as Sting and Tom Hanks testify that Tantric Sex made a great impact on their married life. As a matter of fact, the wife of Sting mentioned that her husband can last five hours of making love with her. Tantra is a way of extending your intimate time together with your partner, putting more effort while making an intense impact on the pleasure you’ll both experience.
Enjoy Tantric Sex if you are:
- Looking for something new.
- Looking for a more intimate relationship with the one you love.
- Looking for a way to reconnect yourself with your partner.
Steps in Tantric Sex
Enable to enjoy the pleasure of Tantra, you must eliminate your focus on orgasm alone. Tantra is not orgasm-centric practice. It includes different techniques such as meditation, massage, and breath control.
Steps 1: Lights off, windows and doors closed.
Step 2: Shake your body, move those unnecessary thoughts away. This helps like a warm-up exercise before you can move on to the next steps.
Step 3: If possible, don’t use the bed for this practice. Use the most comfortable place in your house but stay off the bed. Bed means sleeping time. You wouldn’t like it if your partner becomes sleepy along the way, right?
Step 4: Be comfortable with your partner. Lie together on the floor and begin to give each other gentle touches.
Step 5: Try experimenting. Don’t be too boring with those usual things you do together. Spice things up with new strokes and touches.
Step 6: Keep Focused. This is very important. Don’t let your mind or your partner’s mind focus on something else. Breathing controls can help you.
Step 7: Practice. If you fail to reach your goal, try to do it again. With practice, you can achieve the most ecstatic sex with your partner.
Now that you know it, enjoy it.
One of the most important things that you need to take into account before diving into any practices is to have a deep understanding of the basics – communication skills, emotions, and body awareness. Having a conscious sensuality is like inviting pleasure into your life to release shame, guilt, and fear while letting your inner-self heal and grow in accordance with your own desires and boundaries. Also, having a conscious sensuality will provide you a deeper understanding about human nature which in turn helps you in many aspects of life in order to adapt yourself to the world while harmonizing with your sacred intentions at the same time.