Topic :- Open Relationship or Close Relationship
Open Relationship or Close Relationship is the hottest subject, lets talk more truthfully about on this subject.
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So Here is the story ..
These days, whenever I go in a tantric circle or a non-tantric circle, I found most of the couples are so much interested in choosing the side between an open relationship or closed relationship.
And yes! It is very juicy and at the same time a complicated topic.
So, Normally, I don’t interested in all these games, but I don’t feel that it’s essential to talk on it, but today I think that I should talk about this topic too.
If my talk hurt any couple or any person, please forgive me, this not my purpose. I’m sharing what I feel and also my experience.
So, Neither I support the open relationship nor close relationship.
Either is open relationship or close relationship , both system is the part of game .
Love is not a relationship. This phenomenon of to be in a relationship is gruesome. And that’s how! All of us are missing the joy of love.
Simply understand one thing: love is so higher, so divine. As I experienced in my life, Love gives so much expansion; love is the ultimate experience of unconditional freedom so it can’t be a relationship at all.
Either open or closed doesn’t matter. Once you started to call your love as a relationship that the time you killed the experience of love by your unconsciousness.
A relationship is the game of mind and insecurity. A lonely person needs first an open relationship and then a close relationship.
I sincerely feel growth can be only possible when you are in love without any bondage of open or close and then something really could happen. And that is far from this phenomenon of relationship.
All the spiritual journey is all about to experience the aloneness and be so utterly satisfied with yourself.
So, The demand for others will vanish. Then the experience of love can be possible. And then love can not be reduced into the relationship.
You are simply in love with your partner with utterly thankfulness and gratitude because this person allows you to share Love and Intimacy, and that’s how love becomes prayer.
And with experience of prayer, with this experience of gratitude, with this experience of expansion, a new responsibility will emerge as the flowering.
From this so much higher and vast experience, you will feel a great sense of responsibility. The responsibility is to take care of this flower of love. That responsibility is simply a joy without any pressure of duty.
When love becomes a duty, it’s the relationship, and when love becomes freedom, then it’s a give a so much joy, and with this joy, the new responsibility comes to taking care of yourself, to take care of your loved one and to take care of love.
That’s why I always say to couples; please do not do anything extra. This desire of doing extra and asking extra makes your love into duty.
Just do whatever comes from your heart. Then you just share more care for yourself, and your beloved partner and this sense of responsibility is simply ecstatic.
In this way, you are experiencing life so vastly then you can’t be able to reduce your love into the relationship.
Remember, Love is freedom and relationship in bondage.
“Love rests on no foundation. It is an endless ocean, with no beginning or end.”Rumi
So please, don’t play this game and if you are courageous then make yourself ready, and walk into the path love and expansion—the expansion of the heart.
I’m so grateful for this life to put that seed of love in my heart, and now this seed grows by the grace of my beloved master Osho and that evolves into a tree, and I’m enjoying fruits of this evolution and ready to share my joy with all of you.
I bow 🙇♀️ down to love
I bow 🙇♀️ down to shakti
I bow 🙇♀️ down to life
I bow 🙇♀️ down to the existence
I bow 🙇♀️ down to my beloved master Osho
Love you all of you ❤️🙏
Let’s Dance More, All we have limited time on this planet.